Reply To: How to overcome complacency in a long term relationship?

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Lee
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I often wonder about this as well. Why does an intimate relationship grow stale? And how can one avoid that downward spiral? Why would one want to go back into peak orgasm once they’ve tasted the sweetness of full-body ecstatic bliss? It seems to me the secret is in constant bonding – investing time in closeness. For men, they must expand their definition of sex. I feel that for a woman, this is easier because sex is relational. Sexuality to her means more than just PIV (penis in vagina), it could mean holding hands, watching a movie together, sharing a piece of cheesecake, making breakfast together, sharing in a creative project. When a man can widen his idea about sex with a woman, he can avoid the complacency in the long run.