Reply To: Marriage needs help – looking for a male mentor/guide

[Quietthoughts]

Sorry for what you’re going through. So painful.

If she wants to save the marriage, consider seeing a counselor. Regular contact with a professional can help you put some sustainable structure into your joint effort. I know a couple whose counselor is using the “Gottlieb method.” Not sure what that entails, but it’s a starting point for you if you interview some potential therapists.

If she doesn’t want to save it….