I ka wanaʻao o ke kenekulia iwakālua, ua hoʻopuka ʻo Alice Bunker Stockham, MD i kahi puke liʻiliʻi kupaianaha i kapa ʻia. Karezza: Kaulike o ka Maʻi. Ma ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, haʻi ʻo Victorian i nā pōmaikaʻi o ka moekolohe me ka ʻole o ka orgasm. ʻO kēia mau mea e pili ana i ke olakino maikaʻi, a me ka lōkahi a me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻuhane.
I loko o kāna puke, koi ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻo ke kumu o ka hana kane ʻaʻole hoʻi wahine, aka, he mea pono i na mea aloha a pau. No ke koho ʻana iā ia, ua hoʻokumu ʻo ia i ka huaʻōlelo "Karezza", i ʻōlelo ʻia "ka-RET-za", i hoʻoikaika ʻia e ka huaʻōlelo Italia no ka "caress". Karezza: Kaulike o ka Maʻi loaʻa piha ma SynergyExplorers.org no ka manuahi.
ʻOihana a hoʻoponopono
Hānau ʻia ma ka lā 8 Nowemapa 1833 ma ka palena ʻāina ʻo ʻAmelika (ʻo ia hoʻi i kēlā manawa me kona kamaʻāina ʻo Ohio), ua ulu ʻo Stockham he Quaker. Aia ka hale hoʻolāʻau o kona ʻohana ma kahi kokoke i nā ʻAmelika ʻAmelika āna i mahalo ai.
Ua puka 'o ia mai ka 'oihana lapa'au o ke kula ki'eki'e ma ke Komohana e 'ae i nā wāhine, a lilo 'o ia i kauka wahine mua loa ma 'Amelika. Hāpai ʻo ia me kāna kāne kauka i ʻelua keiki.
He loea ʻo Stockham i ka obstetrics and gynaecology. He ʻumikūmālima makahiki ma mua o kona kākau ʻana Karezza, Ua kākau ʻo ia i kahi kikokikona kaulana i kapa ʻia Tokology (Helene no "Obstetrics"). Ua manaʻo ʻo ia e ʻike nā wahine i ka hana o ko lākou kino. Ma mua o kona manawa, Tokology uhi ʻia nā ʻano āpau o ke olakino wahine a me nā keiki.
Ua hāʻawi pū ʻo ia i nā kope i nā wahine peni ʻole a me nā wahine hoʻokamakama kahiko e kūʻai aku i kēlā me kēia puka e loaʻa ai ko lākou ola. Ua loaʻa i kēlā me kēia puke kahi palapala hōʻoia no kahi hoʻokolohua gynecological manuahi ma ke keʻena ʻo Stockham.
Ua kākoʻo ikaika ʻo ia i ka koho balota o ka wahine a ua komo i nā hana hoʻoponopono ākea. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ma ka waena o ka makahiki 1890, ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ia ma ke ao holoʻokoʻa ma ke ʻano he wahine manaʻo o kēia wā i ikaika loa e hoʻonaʻauao i ka lehulehu. ʻO kēia, ʻoiai ke alo nei i ka poʻe hoʻohewa a me ka hoʻokae ʻana no ka kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i nā pilikia i manaʻo ʻia he pilikino loa no ke kūkākūkā nui.
Noonoo hou i ka moe kolohe
Ua hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻo Stockham ʻo ka manaʻo nui e koi ʻia nā wahine e komo i ka ejaculatory sex - i ʻole lākou e hele i kahi lōʻihi e pale aku i ka hana o ka hānau ʻana - he mea lapuwale. Kākoʻo wiwo ʻole ʻo ia i ka hoʻomau ʻana i ka moekolohe i ka wā hāpai a me ka pale ʻana i ka hāpai ʻana. ʻO ka mea hope i hoʻopiʻi iā ia i ka hakakā me nā mana no ka mea he kānāwai ʻole ka hāpai ʻana i ka mana hānau.
I ka makahiki 1905, ua hoʻopiʻi ka Society for the Suppression of Vice iā ia no ka hoʻouna ʻana i nā mea kūpono ʻole ma o nā leka uila, e noi ana i ke kānāwai Comstock. Ua hoʻolimalima ʻo Stockham i ka loio kaulana Chicago Clarence Darrow a ua hele ka hihia i ka hookolokolo.
Ua hewa ʻo Stockham a hoʻopaʻi ʻia he $250 kālā. Ua pāpā ʻia kāna mau puke, e koi ana iā ia e pani i kāna ʻoihana paʻi puke a me kāna New Thought School ma Williams Bay, Wisconsin.
ʻAʻole ʻo ia i ola hou mai ka hoʻokolokolo a neʻe ʻo ia i Kaleponi me kāna kaikamahine. ʻAʻole i liʻuliʻu ka make ʻana o Stockham i kona mau makahiki he kanahikukūmāiwa. Aia kekahi paka ma Evanston, Illinois i kona inoa.
ʻO ka moe kolohe kapu
Ma mua o kona ola ʻana, ua hele nui ʻo Stockham. ʻO kāna puke Tokology ʻike ʻia ma Palani, Finnish, Kelemānia a me Lūkia (ʻo ia ka mea hope me Leo Tolstoy, āna i hālāwai ai).
He mea paʻakikī ke noʻonoʻo i kahi hiʻohiʻona ʻoi aku ka hoihoi o Stockham ma mua o kona ikaika no ka moekolohe kapu. I ka manawa i unuhi ʻia ai nā puke tantra mua i ka ʻōlelo Pelekania, hele ʻo ia i India. Ma laila ʻo ia i kipa aku ai i kahi matrilineal caste o nā koa hoʻoilina, i ʻōlelo ʻia he ʻohana Brahmin, ma ke kahakai ʻo Malabar.
Uaʻikeʻiaʻo "nā wāhine kūʻokoʻa o India," he naʻauao nā wāhine Nayar, ua hoʻonaʻauao maikaʻiʻia, a ua iho nā waiwai a pau ma o lākou. Ua hoʻomalu lākou i nā pono ʻoihana ʻohana a koho i kā lākou mau kāne ponoʻī - a hiki i ka hoʻopau ʻana o ka hoʻokele Pelekane i kā lākou moʻomeheu kūʻokoʻa. Ma laila paha i aʻo ai ʻo Stockham e pili ana i ka tantra.
Hoʻokomo pinepine ka tantra Tibetan a me India i nā wahine ma ke ʻano o ke kaʻa no nā kāne e hoʻohana ai e hoʻonui i ko lākou ikaika ʻuhane. Ke koi nei ʻo Stockham e pōmaikaʻi nā kāne a me nā wahine i ka mālama ʻana a me ka hoʻololi ʻana i ko lākou ʻano moe.
Hoʻoikaika a kākoʻo ʻo Karezza i ke kāne a me ka wahine, no ka mea, ʻo ia kahi hui o nā mea kiʻekiʻe…. Aia nā kumu hohonu i ko mākou mau kumu hānau ma mua o ka hoʻomaopopo maʻamau. I loko o ka hui kino o ke kāne a me ka wahine, hiki i kahi hui ʻuhane ke hāʻawi ʻaʻole wale i ka hauʻoli kiʻekiʻe, akā ma ke ʻano [alakaʻi] i ka ulu ʻana a me ka ulu ʻana o ka ʻuhane. Hiki ke alakaʻi ʻia ka ikehu noʻonoʻo i ke kūkulu ʻana i nā ʻiʻo o ke kino a me ka hoʻopiha ʻana i kēlā me kēia cell me ke olakino a me ka ikaika, ʻoiai e hoʻoulu ai i ka hānau ʻana o nā keiki kino ʻole e like me nā mea nui, nā hana kanaka, a me nā hana noʻeau.
E hōʻike ana nā ʻāpana o kēia pou i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a Stockham no nā kāne e pili ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana iā Karezza, a e kamaʻilio i ka hopena o ka ʻuhane. Heluhelu i ka Māhele 2.
