Kaʻana i nā ʻōlelo a nā mākua i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā Synergy me nā keiki i ka hale.
He makuakāne:
Hana mākou a puni ka papa hana a kā mākou keiki. Loaʻa iā mākou he 2-3 mau kau wikiwiki no kahi o 10 a 30 mau minuke i kēlā me kēia manawa ke hiki iā mākou ke mālama i ke ao i nā hopena pule. I kekahi manawa lilo aloha loa ia e hoʻopili me kahi manawa kūpono wale nō.
ʻAʻole mākou pāpā i kā mākou poʻe keiki e hoʻopilikia iā mākou a pane mau i kā lākou kāhea. He makuahine aloha nui kaʻu wahine a manaʻo ʻo kā kā kāua mau keiki kāhea e hele mai ma mua o kā mākou aloha aloha hola. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hiamoe ka manawa nui o kā mākou aloha. I ka pō nei ua pili mākou ma kahi o 2-3 mau hola a hiamoe mākou.
ʻO kekahi makua ʻē aʻe
I kekahi manawa pono mākou e hana a puni kā mākou papa keiki a haʻalele wale i ke aloha ke hiki iā mākou, akā i nā manawa ʻē aʻe ua hoʻomaʻamaʻa mākou iā lākou e hāʻawi pū i kā mākou manawa hoʻokahi. I ke ahiahi no ka laʻana, "manawa moe kūikawā" no lākou e mākaukau ana no ka moe me nā puke moʻolelo e heluhelu a i loko o ko lākou mau lumi no ka pō hoʻokahi hola ma mua o ka hiamoe maoli. Hāʻawi kēlā iā lākou i ka manawa e iho i lalo a aʻo e maikaʻi ke loaʻa ka manawa mālie iā lākou iho, a hāʻawi iā mākou i ka hola keu ma mua o ka mea a mākou e manaʻo ai inā lākou e hiamoe i ka manawa maʻamau.
ʻO kekahi makua ʻē aʻe
Loaʻa iā mākou i nā lā i ka home kahi i noho ai nā keiki ʻelua i ka pō ma nā hale o nā hoaaloha (a e hoʻihoʻi mākou i ke aloha no nā mākua o kā lākou hoaaloha).
Ma nā kakahiaka i hōʻike ʻia, e ʻōlelo i kēlā me kēia Pōʻaono ʻē aʻe, haʻi mākou iā lākou ma mua o ka manawa inā ala lākou ma mua o kekahi manawa, pono lākou e pāʻani mālie i loko o kā lākou lumi a hiki i ko mākou kiʻi ʻana iā lākou, no ka mea ke noho pū nei mākou i kā mākou manawa hoʻokahi. . Ua hoʻāʻo lākou e hoʻāʻo iā ia a no laila i ka wā mua ua keʻakeʻa ʻia mākou, akā ua ʻike koke lākou he ʻoihana mākou. Ma hope ua ʻae lākou a hauʻoli hoʻi i ka hana maʻamau. ʻAʻole ia i hana pinepine ʻia, a hana mākou i mea leʻaleʻa no lākou, e hāʻawi ana iā lākou i nā mea ʻaina kakahiaka i ʻae ʻia lākou e ʻai i ko lākou mau lumi ke ala lākou i kakahiaka. Me he mea lā e hoʻomoana ana kahi lumi moe no lākou. ʻAʻole wau e kālepa i ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki no kekahi mea o ka honua. Akā ʻaʻole mākou i namunamu i ka hiki ʻana mai o ka pūnana manu ʻole.
ʻO kekahi makuakāne
I ka wā liʻiliʻi o kā mākou keiki, komo mākou i ke ahiahi ma hope o ko lākou moe ʻana. Ua hiamoe mākou i ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo ka "moena ʻohana" (ʻo kēlā me kēia mea i hoʻokahi moena nui). No laila, ke makemake mākou i ka moekolohe e ʻōlelo mākou, "E hele i ka hōkele" ʻo ia hoʻi ka moena keu i ka lumi ʻē aʻe.
Hoʻomaka mākou i ke aloha aloha ʻole orgasmic i ka wā o kā mākou mau keikikāne ma kahi o 5 a me 7. Ua hāmama mākou me lākou a ʻike lākou he ʻano moekolohe kā mākou. Ua noa lākou e hele mai i loko o kā mākou lumi i ka wā a mākou e hana nei. Inā makemake lākou iā mākou, e kīkē lākou i ka puka o mākou, kū mākou a ʻōlelo, "komo i loko." E lohe mākou i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai a ʻōlelo pehea e hiki ai iā lākou ke mālama iā lākou iho. ʻIke nō, e kū mākou inā aia kekahi ʻano o ka pilikia, akā ʻaʻole iki kēia a ua aʻo lākou e hāʻawi iā mākou i ka manawa i pani ʻia ka puka. Ua maopopo iā lākou he "manawa makuahine / makuakāne" ʻaʻole e hoʻopilikia iā mākou koe wale nō inā pilikia.
Hiki i kahi keiki hānau ke hoʻopau nui. Ma ka lima ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole pono kēia ala i kahi ikaika nui. Inā luhi ʻoe a pili wale i nā kino, neʻe iki, a hiamoe, nani wale kēia.
Ma kahi memo ʻē aʻe ua wehewehe wau i kēia ala i kaʻu keiki mua ʻoiai ke hana moekolohe nei ʻo ia. Ua lawe koke ʻo ia iā ia, a ʻoiai ʻaʻole paha ʻo ia i hohonu loa i loko o kēia manawa, hana maoli ʻo ia i ke aloha non-orgasmic. Mai nā mea aʻu e lohe ai makemake nui ʻia ʻo ia me nā wahine ʻōpio. He mea kupaianaha maoli kēia e hoʻoili i kaʻu mau keikikāne.
He makuahine
He liʻiliʻi iki hoʻi kaʻu mau keiki, akā ʻike lākou inā pani ʻia ko mākou puka, pono lākou:
A) hoʻopau i kā lākou pilikia ponoʻī
B) paheʻe i kahi leka ma lalo o ka puka (ua loaʻa iā mākou kekahi mau mea leʻaleʻa)
C) inā pono, kī.
Me he mea lā ke aʻo nei lākou i ka waiwai a me ka hoʻoponopono pilikia i nā manawa ke loaʻa ʻole mākou, a hoʻokipa hoʻi lākou iā lākou iho. Nā mākau ola!
Ua loaʻa lākou iā mākou ma lalo o kahi kapa moe i nā manawa he nui. ʻO ia kahi mea a mākou e hana ai - mālama i kahi kapa moe! ʻLelo mākou ke hoʻomaha nei mākou. Manaʻo paha lākou he mea ʻē aʻe makemake mākou e hoʻomaha kapa ʻole, akā ʻo ia ia. Ke pili nei mākou, he mea pilikino ia akā ʻaʻole wau hilahila a hilahila paha, no laila ʻaʻole wau e manaʻo e kiʻi ana lākou i kahi manaʻo e hana ʻia kahi mea hilahila.
He makuahine ʻē aʻe
Ua ʻike hewa ʻole mākou i kēia ʻano pili inā ʻaʻole hiki i kaʻu kāne (manawa pōkole) ke hana i ka moekolohe maʻamau akā makemake lākou e pili kino a pili kino. I ka manawa a mākou i manaʻo ai i ka mea i hana ai no mākou, ua lilo ia i mea a mākou e hoʻomau ai e makemake.
Ua haʻi mākou i kā mākou poʻe keiki aia he manawa pilikino ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke keʻakeʻa iā mākou koe wale nō i kahi ulia pōpilikia, a ʻaʻohe mea e pili ai me ka mālama ʻole. Ua pōmaikaʻi kā mākou manawa i ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa ma ke ʻano he anakahi. Ua akahele pono ʻia, kūpono i ke au, a wehewehe mālie ʻia. Manaʻo nui nā keiki IMO ke aloha nui ko lākou mau mākua a ʻike lākou ke hōʻike nei lākou i kekahi i kekahi. I kēlā lewa, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi iā lākou e hoʻomaka me ke akahai e aʻo i ke kūʻokoʻa a me ke aʻo ʻana pehea e mōhai ai no nā pono o kekahi ʻē aʻe i kēlā me kēia manawa.
Ua aʻo ʻia iā lākou e hoʻomau ka hauʻoli me ka hauʻoli ma hope o ka male ʻana - ʻokoʻa ka mea a lākou i aʻo ʻia ai i ka pāpāho. ʻOiai mākou e pono ai i kā mākou pilikino, makemake mākou e ʻike lākou e moekolohe ana mākou i kēlā manawa, no ko lākou hauʻoli a me ka palekana e like me kā mākou.
Ua lanakila-lanakila. Ke nānā nei i hope, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a mākou i hānai ai i kā mākou pilina i kēlā ala kekahi o kā lākou mau mea hoʻomanaʻo nui loa, a i kēia manawa ua ulu a makua lākou e aloha mau nei i kā lākou mau wahine ma hope o nā makahiki o ka male pono. A aloha lākou i kaʻu poʻe moʻopuna i ka make pū kekahi.
ʻO kahi hana hoʻopunipuni ʻē aʻe i haʻi mai ai koʻu makuakāne iā mākou ma ke ʻano he kāne hou ʻaʻole mākou i loaʻa ka manawa e hoʻāʻo ai: Hūnā i nā hapahā he 29 i ka pā pā palekana. E haʻi i nā keiki hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa ka nui a lākou e ʻike ai. Akā e haʻi iā lākou ua hūnā ʻoe iā 30. Ua aloha wau i kēlā manaʻo akā manaʻo wau e hopohopo nui wau ma mua o ka leʻaleʻa i ka pili aloha. E ʻike ana wau i kaʻu mau keiki e piʻi aʻe ana i ka pā i ke alanui, e ʻeli ana i ka māla, kua i lalo i ka lāʻau - e pili ana i nā mea āpau e loaʻa ai i kēlā hapaha hope.
ʻO kekahi makua ʻē aʻe
ʻO kēia ala maoli ka manaʻo o kaʻu wahine aloha. Ua luhi mākou i ka hana o kēlā me kēia lā ʻaʻole mākou i makemake nui i ka moekolohe a lilo ia i mea nui i kēlā me kēia pule. Ua noi mai kaʻu wahine iaʻu e hoʻopili wale me ia ma mua o ka hiamoe ʻana. ʻIke wau i ka hana ʻole a me ka pili loa. Nui mākou leʻaleʻa a hoʻomaka mākou e hiamoe mau e pili ana. Ua lilo kā mākou hoʻokolohua i ʻāpana o ko mākou ola.
ʻElua a ʻekolu mau manawa a kā mākou mau keiki i loaʻa ai iā mākou i kahi moe no ka mea ua poina iā mākou ke laka i ka puka. ʻO ka lole pale wale nō ka mea i hoʻopakele iā mākou. ʻO kekahi keu pono o kēia ʻano aloha aloha ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka haʻalulu no kahi keiki e ʻauana ana ma ke ʻano he cuddling. ʻO ka mea leʻaleʻa ka manawa hope loa a kā mākou keiki e makemake ai e hui pū me mākou. Manaʻo wau iho he kūpono kēia kaila o ke aloha i nā kāne me nā keiki ma mua o ke aloha maʻamau. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohui me ka leo ʻole a hiki iā lākou ke kū ke hoʻopau ʻia.