Mosiyana ndi zimene anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, ma orgasm si chizindikiro cha kugonana kopambana. Pali kugonana kopanda orgasm komwe kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kosangalatsa. Izi ndi zomwe muyenera kudziwa za njira ya karezza
Ambiri aife timakhulupirira kuti kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri kugonana. Koma njira ya karezza imatsimikizira kuti kugonana kungakhale kwakukulu popanda zolaula.
Kugonana kwa Karezza, komwe kumachotsa pachimake kugonana kwathunthu, cholinga chake ndi kupangitsa maanja "kumverera kuti alipo panthawiyi" kukulitsa mgwirizano wamalingaliro ndi chikondi pakati pa okondedwa.
Njira yogonana pang'onopang'ono komanso yonyansa imaganiziridwa kuti ili ndi mizu yauzimu koma idadziwika m'buku la 1902 Karezza: The Ethics of Marriage, lolembedwa ndi ob/gyn Alice Bunker Stockham.
Nazi zonse zomwe muyenera kudziwa zokhudza kugonana kwa karezza komanso momwe mungakwaniritsire kugonana kopanda orgasm ndi mnzanu.
Karezza sex ndi chiyani?
Karezza ndi njira yapang'onopang'ono komanso yopatsa chidwi yogonana, yomwe imaphunzitsa maanja kukulitsa kulumikizana kwawo pakugonana komanso m'malingaliro popanda orgasms.
Mawu oti "karezza" (ka-RET-za) amachokera ku liwu la Chiitaliya "carezza", lomwe limatanthauza "kusisita".
Njira yogonana iyi imayika patsogolo kukhudza komanso ubwenzi kuposa ma orgasm. Cholinga cha kugonana kwa karezza sichimafika pachimake, koma kufika pamtunda womasuka pamene mukugonana.
Mchitidwewu umaphatikizapo kusuntha pang'onopang'ono monga kupuma mozama, kugwedeza, kuyang'ana, kusisita, kukhudzana ndi khungu ndi khungu komanso kuchedwetsa mwadala ma orgasms.
Zonsezi zimayambitsa kutulutsidwa kwa oxytocin, mahomoni ogwirizana, omwe amachititsa kuti ubwenzi, kuyandikana komanso kulankhulana pakati pa okwatirana.
Momwe mungapangire kugonana kwa karezza
Palibe njira yokhazikitsidwa yochitira Karezza kugonana. Chofunika kwambiri ndi kukhala chete ndi kumasuka ndi kulankhulana kwambiri, osati chilakolako chimene chimayambitsa kugonana.
Yambani ndi kusisita ndi kulengeza zapakamwa za chikondi ndi chikondi kapena zitsimikizo za kukongola.
Pang'onopang'ono, kugwirana kumayamba kugonana, ndipo malo omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala atagona pambali kapena pamwamba pa wina ndi mzake.
Mu kugonana kwa karezza, kulowa mkati kuyenera kukhala pang'onopang'ono komanso mwadala kuti mupewe kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Makhalidwe ena ogwirizana omwe mungayesere kupanga kugonana kwa karezza kukhala abwinoko ndi awa:
- kuyang'ana m'maso ndikumwetulira
- khungu pakhungu
- kulunzanitsa kupuma kwanu ndi kwa mnzanu
- kukumbatira mofatsa kapena kugwedeza mutu kapena thunthu la mnzanu
- kuwagwira, kuwaza kapena kuwakumbatira
- kusisita mapazi, mapewa kapena mutu kapena kuwasisita
- gona ndi khutu limodzi pamtima wa wokondedwa wako
- psyopsyona mnzako ndi lilime
- kuyamwa kapena kukhudza mabere kapena mawere awo
- mofatsa ikani manja anu pa maliseche awo.
Zochita zonsezi musanayambe, panthawi komanso pambuyo pogonana zimayenera kukhala pang'onopang'ono komanso momasuka.
Popeza sizikukhudzana ndi chilakolako ndi chilakolako, kugonana kwa karezza kungakhale koyenera kwa maanja omwe ali ndi maubwenzi a nthawi yaitali omwe akufuna kuti azikhala ogwirizana kwambiri.
