Kumayambiriro kwa zaka za zana la makumi awiri, Alice Bunker Stockham, MD adasindikiza kabukhu kakang'ono kodabwitsa kotchedwa. Karezza: Makhalidwe a Ukwati. M'chinenero chosavuta, cha Victorian amalongosola ubwino wa kugonana popanda orgasm. Izi zikuphatikizapo thanzi labwino, ndi mgwirizano wokulirapo ndi kupindula kwauzimu.

M’buku lake akuumirira kuti mchitidwewo suli ayi mwamuna kapena wamkazi, koma makamaka kwa onse okonda. Kuti atchule, adapanga mawu oti "Karezza", otchedwa "ka-RET-za", owuziridwa ndi liwu lachi Italiya loti "caress". Karezza: Makhalidwe a Ukwati likupezeka kwathunthu pa SynergyExplorers.org kwaulere.

Katswiri ndi wokonzanso

Wobadwa pa 8 Novembara 1833 kumalire aku America (omwe panthawiyo amaphatikizapo kwawo ku Ohio), Stockham adakulira m'gulu la Quaker. Nyumba yamatabwa ya banja lake inali pafupi ndi Amwenye Achimereka omwe ankawalemekeza.

Anamaliza maphunziro ake kusukulu yokhayo yamaphunziro apamwamba ku West kuti avomereze azimayi, kukhala m'modzi mwa madokotala achikazi oyambilira ku States. Iye ndi mwamuna wake dokotala analera ana awiri.

Stockham akatswiri azachipatala ndi gynecology. Zaka khumi ndi zisanu asanalembe Karezza, adalemba buku lodziwika bwino lotchedwa Tokology (Chi Greek kuti "Obstetrics"). Ankakhulupirira kuti amayi ayenera kudziwa momwe matupi awo amagwirira ntchito. Patsogolo pa nthawi yake, Tokology inafotokoza mbali zonse za umoyo wa amayi ndi ana.

Anaperekanso makope kwa azimayi opanda ndalama ndi omwe kale anali mahule kuti azigulitsa khomo ndi khomo kuti apeze zofunika pamoyo wawo. Voliyumu iliyonse idaphatikiza satifiketi yoyezetsa magazi kwaulere ku chipatala cha Stockham.

Analimbikitsa mwamphamvu ufulu wa amayi ndikuchita nawo ntchito zosiyanasiyana zokonzanso zinthu. M'malo mwake, pofika pakati pa zaka za m'ma 1890 adadziwika padziko lonse lapansi ngati mkazi wamalingaliro amakono yemwe anali wolimba mtima mokwanira kuti aphunzitse anthu ambiri. Izi, ngakhale kukumana ndi otsutsa komanso tsankho chifukwa cholankhula za zinthu zomwe kale zinkawoneka zachinsinsi kuti sizingakambirane.

Kuganiziranso za kugonana

Stockham adanena kuti chikhulupiliro chofala chakuti akazi ayenera kukakamizidwa mwalamulo kutenga nawo mbali pa kugonana kogonana - kuopera kuti angapite kutali kuti apewe zovuta zoberekera - zinali zopanda pake. Iye molimba mtima analimbikitsa kudziletsa kugonana pa nthawi ya mimba ndi kupewa mimba. Womalizayo adamupangitsa kuti ayambe kutsutsana ndi akuluakulu aboma chifukwa kunali koletsedwa kulimbikitsa njira zakulera.

Mu 1905 a Society for the Suppression of Vice adamuimba mlandu wotumiza zinthu zosayenera kudzera m'makalata, kuyitanitsa Comstock Law. Stockham, yemwe anali ndi zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri, adalemba ganyu loya wotchuka waku Chicago Clarence Darrow ndipo mlanduwo unakazengedwa mlandu.

Stockham adapezeka wolakwa ndikulipiritsa $250. Mabuku ake adaletsedwa, zomwe zidamukakamiza kutseka kampani yake yosindikiza ndi New Thought School ku Williams Bay, Wisconsin.

Sanachire pamlanduwo ndipo adasamukira ku California ndi mwana wake wamkazi. Stockham anamwalira posakhalitsa pambuyo pake ali ndi zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri mphambu zisanu ndi zinayi. Paki ku Evanston, Illinois idakali ndi dzina lake.

Wachiwerewere wopatulika

M'mbuyomu m'moyo wake, Stockham adayenda kwambiri. Buku lake Tokology anaonekera mu French, Finnish, German ndi Russian (wotsiriza ndi kutsogolo Leo Tolstoy, amene anakumana).

Ndizovuta kulingalira mbali yochititsa chidwi kwambiri ya Stockham kuposa changu chake cha kugonana kopatulika. Pa nthawi yomwe mabuku oyambirira a tantra anamasuliridwa m'Chingelezi, anapita ku India. Kumeneko adayendera gulu lankhondo lankhondo, omwe amati ndi a Brahmin, pagombe la Malabar.

Odziwika kuti "akazi omasuka a ku India," akazi a Nayar anali anzeru, ophunzira kwambiri, ndipo katundu yense ankadutsa mwa iwo. Amawongolera zokonda zamabizinesi abanja ndikusankha amuna awo - mpaka olamulira aku Britain athetsa chikhalidwe chawo chapadera. Kumeneko Stockham mwina adaphunzira za tantra.

Tibetan ndi Indian tantra nthawi zambiri amaponyera akazi ngati galimoto kuti abambo agwiritse ntchito kukweza mphamvu zawo zauzimu. Stockham, komabe, akuumirira kuti amuna ndi akazi onse amapindula posunga ndi kusinthana malingaliro awo ogonana.

Karezza imalimbitsa ndi kulimbikitsa onse kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi, chifukwa ndi mgwirizano wa anthu apamwamba…. Pali zolinga zakuya zamphamvu zathu zakubala kuposa zomwe zimamveka. Mu mgwirizano wakuthupi wa mwamuna ndi mkazi pakhoza kukhala mgonero wa moyo wopatsa osati chisangalalo chapamwamba, komanso [kupangitsa] kukula kwa moyo ndi chitukuko. Mphamvu zakulenga zitha kuwongoleredwa pomanga minofu yathupi ndikulowa m'maselo aliwonse ndi thanzi komanso nyonga, komanso kulimbikitsa kubadwa kwa ana omwe si akuthupi monga zopanga zazikulu, ntchito zothandiza anthu, ndi zojambulajambula.

Magawo am'tsogolomu afotokozanso upangiri wa Stockham kwa maanja amomwe angagwiritsire ntchito Karezza, ndi kuthana ndi zomwe zimachitika mu uzimu. Werengani Gawo 2.


Kope laulere la Karezza: Makhalidwe a Ukwati