Malinga ndi magazini ya HER, "Kugonana kwa Karezza sikwachilendo - ichi ndi chifukwa chake zikuyenda bwino":

Cholinga si orgasm, koma kuyandikana komanso kulumikizana ndi mnzanu.

M'zaka zingapo zapitazi, mabuku ambiri padziko lonse lapansi akhala akufufuza za Karezza, zomwe anthu ambiri amazitcha kuti "Karezza". 'hygge of sex'. [Karezza ndi Kugonana kwamtundu wa Synergy).]

Kufananiza 'kugonana pang'onopang'ono' kwa mtundu uwu Danish lingaliro la coziness, Zingakhale zothandiza ponena za fanizo lothandizira, koma ndikofunikanso kuzindikira kuti pali zambiri za Karezza kuposa momwe kuyerekezera kofulumiraku kukusonyeza.

Koma kodi Karezza ndi chiyani kwenikweni, ndipo n’chifukwa chiyani ndi yotchuka kwambiri?

Monga, kutengera Healthline, Karezza amachokera ku Italy carezza, yomwe imamasulira kwenikweni ku liwu lakuti caress, lomwe ndiloyenera. Karezza amatanthauzidwa ndi kufatsa ndi chikondi, ndipo kutsindika ndiko kufika "mgwirizano womasuka" ndi wokondedwa wanu, osati kungopeza chisangalalo.

Ngakhale olemba nkhani za kugonana akhala akufufuza Karezza zaka zingapo zapitazi mchitidwewu si wachilendo. Mu 1931, katswiri wa za kugonana J. William Lloyd analemba buku lonse - Njira ya Kerazza - yoperekedwa ku mchitidwewu. Iye ananena kuti Alice B. Stockham, dokotala, ndi amene anayambitsa mawuwa, koma gulu la Oneida Community, gulu lachipembedzo lomwe linakhazikitsidwa ku New Orleans mu 1848, linkachita zachiwerewere zamtunduwu. Ndizofanananso machitidwe ena ogonana a Taoist ndi Indian Tantra.

Kulankhula Mechanically, cholinga cha Karezza, ndi kukhalabe mu gawo phiri la kugonana kwa nthawi yaitali - iyi ndi mbali ya kugonana pamaso orgasm - ndi cholinga kukubweretsani inu ndi mnzanuyo pafupi. Kusisita, maonekedwe achikondi ndi mawu otsimikizira amakhalanso ndi Karezza.

Pankhani ya phindu, kuchitapo kanthu kwa kuyandikana ndi chikondi kumawonjezera oxytocin ya thupi, kapena hormone yachimwemwe.

[Kusintha kuyang'ana kutali ndi orgasm]

Ngakhale zikuoneka kuti anthu akhala akuchita mtundu wina wa Karezza kuyambira kale, kuyambiranso kwake kwaposachedwa m'ma TV odziwika bwino kungasonyeze kusintha kwakukulu kwa chikhalidwe cha kugonana kukhala cholinga chokhacho cha kugonana.

Irish holistic sex Therapist Jenny Keanemwachitsanzo, adalembapo za momwe kuchotsa cholinga cha orgasm kungapangitse kugonana kwabwino.

Polemba pa Instagram, adalemba kuti: "Tikakhulupirira kuti ma orgasms ndi gawo la "kuchita bwino" kugonana, payekha kapena mgwirizano, timakhala tikuyang'ana kwambiri pa "chifuno" cha kukumana kulikonse m'malo mochita chiwerewere. pa chokumana nacho chonse cha chisangalalo.”

Pambuyo pake adalemba kuti: "Mukaponya zolinga zongoganiza kuchokera pazenera, mumapanga kupepuka komanso malo odzipezera nokha."

Zoonadi, njira yogonana yomwe siimakhazikika pa orgasm imalola kugonana kuwonedwa mwachiwonekere, ndipo pamapeto pake kungayambitse mgwirizano wapamtima, kuwonjezereka kwa ubwenzi ndi chisangalalo.