Varume havasi [murume mumwe chete]. Hapana chakanaka kunyepedzera. Varume havasi, kwete nemhuka yavo. Monogamy (kunyangwe yakagara ichikosha pamagariro edu enhaka) kwatiri isu varume chidimbu chehunhu hwakafumurwa, zvinoenderana nekutenda kwete nyama. Musimboti wepasi rakadonha ndewekuti zvakanakisa hazvigone kuwanikwa nekunakidzwa kwemahara, kana neicho chinonzi "kuzviziva" (kazhinji izita rakanaka rekuzvifadza, rinoita zvisirizvo pakuzadzikiswa kwevamwe); asi nekuramba, nekutambura….

Kuroora kunogona kubatsira kutsvenesa uye kunangidzira kune chakakodzera chinhu zvishuwo zvake zvepabonde; nyasha dzayo dzinogona kumubatsira muhondo; asi kurwa kunoramba kuripo. Hazvizomugutsa-sezvo nzara inogona kudzivirirwa nekudya nguva dzose. Ichapa sekuwanda kwematambudziko kuhutsanana hwakafanira kune iyo nyika sezvo ichipa mapasita.

Hakuna murume, zvisinei zvechokwadi aida waakange akaroora uye mwenga sejaya, akararama akatendeka kwaari semukadzi mupfungwa nemumuviri pasina kuita nemaune kuita kuda, asingazvirambe. Vashoma kwazvo vanoudzwa izvozvo-kunyangwe avo vakarererwa mu "Chechi." Avo vekunze vanoita kunge havawanzo kuzvinzwa.

Kana kunaka kwacho kuchipera, kana kungoshanda zvishoma, vanofunga kuti vakakanganisa, uye kuti mweya-wemurume chaiye uchiri kuwana. Iye chaiye mweya-mukwanyina kazhinji anoratidza kuva anotevera anokwezva pabonde munhu anouya pamwe chete. Mumwe munhu wavanogona kunge vakaroora zvine mutsindo, dai chete—. Saka kurambana, kupa iyo "dai chete." (Tsamba dzaJRR Tolkien, mapeji 51-52)

Kuora mwoyo

Nherera pamakore gumi nemaviri, Tolkien akadanana nemukadzi wake achiri kuyaruka. Muchengeti wake akamurambidza chero kusangana zvakare nemukadzi waaida kusvika Tolkien ave nemakore makumi maviri nerimwe (muchidimbu nekuti rudo rwake rwepamoyo rwakamubata zvekuti mamaki ake akatambura kuchikoro). Paakangosvika makore makumi maviri nemana akabva afunga. Edith akagura kusangana kwake kwenguva pfupi kune mumwe munhu, uye Edith naJRR vakaroora nguva pfupi asati aenda kumatanho eFrance muWW I. Vaviri vevamwe shamwari dzake dzepamwoyo vakafa muhondo, uye akabatwa nefivhiri yairamba ichingoitika.

Tolkien aive nerudo. Akamboti, "mutsika yedu yekuMadokero tsika yekudanana chivalric [ichiri] yakasimba, ”kunyange akaziva kuti" nguva dzakafanana nayo. "

Asi kubva mutsamba yaakanyorera mwanakomana wake pamusoro, zviri nyore kufungidzira kurwadziwa kwake apo rudo rwake rwekutanga rwakapfekwa uye akanzwa sekunge akaroora munhu asiriye. Kunyange zvakadaro imba yake yakatsungirira kweanopfuura makore makumi mashanu. Akafa isingasviki makore maviri mushure memukadzi wake, waaisuwa zvikuru. (Vateveri veTolkien vanozoona mazita 'Lúthien' uye 'Beren', vadikani vane mukurumbira mungano yaTolkien, yakavezwa muEdith neJRR dombo remusoro.)

Tolkien akaziva zvakajeka dambudziko rezvakaberekwa rinowanikwa mune zvepabonde. Zviri pachena kuti akasangana neakakanganisika "ons" uye "offs", kana mafaro uye kushungurudzika, zvinowanzoitika mune hukama hwepedyo. Mune ruzivo rwake bonde rakajairika "harigutsikane." Akayambira mwanakomana wake kuti bonde rakasiyana nenzara, iyo inogona kudzikiswa nekudya kwakajairika.

Synergy ingadai yakabatsira here?

Tolkien aive chokwadi nezvebonde rakajairwa. Asi vanoda vanokunda Synergy-style yekugadzira rudo kazhinji kuita rudo kakawanda. Uye pasina kukuvara kwekukwezva-kudzoreredza simba rinogara richiitika sezvo vadikani vanopfuura iyo uchimiro nguva yemubatanidzwa wavo. Nekudaro iyo Synergy nzira inokonzeresa kudzikisira nzara yebonde zvakanyanya kupfuura pabonde.

Muchidimbu, inogona kunge iri ruchiva anogona kubviswa chaiko senzara, chero bedzi "zvekudya" zvenguva dzose zvichishandisa Synergy. Kana zvirizvo, pamwe Tolkien akarasika paakagumisa izvozvo kutambura zvakakosha kuti utsungirire hukama hwepedyo hwemhuri. Zvinogona kunge iko kuzvidzora + kugara uchidanana = fomula inoshanda.

Tolkien aive Katurike. Hatizive kana angadai akaedza nenzira isingaenderane pabonde seSynergy kunyangwe aine rudo rwakadii. Zvinokatyamadza, zvisinei, Tolkien anogona kunge akakurukura hurukuro dzayo yakatambanuka naCharles Williams, shamwari yake yepedyo uye waanoshanda naye. inkling (Oxford mabhuku eboka). Mubhuku rake Kuburuka Kwenjiva Williams akaratidza kuzvidemba kuti Chechi yakanga yadzvinyirira mhinduro kare munzira dzeSynergy.

Zvirokwazvo, Tolkien (pakupedzisira) akabvuma zvipo zvekuzvidzora pabonde. Akanyora kuna CS Lewis (mumwe wevaInklings) kuti, "kuroora hakurambidze kusangana pabonde, asi nzira chaiyo yekuzvidzora pabonde - zvirokwazvo ingangoita nzira yakanakisa yekuwana kunakidzwa kwepabonde".

Pamwe hazvisi zvekunyepedzera kutaura kuti Tolkien angadai akave "zvakasikwa" zveSynergy.

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