Vlogger Aahana discusses the experience of herself and her friends. In her view, having too much orgasmic sex early in a relationship is problematic. It discourages couples from investing the energy that enables them to get to know each other deeply.
Casual lovers tend to skip steps such as asking searching questions and discussing the responsibilities that go with sexual intimacy and procreation, intended or otherwise. This can be a recipe for future misery.
Aahana also reports feeling more centered since eliminating casual sex.