Synergy without intercourse?

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Sounds like a contradiction in terms. Yet, what if you or your partner prefers to skip penetration in the moment for whatever reason? How do you tap the delicious benefits of intimate connection? If you’re a Synergy fan, you already know that the gifts of this practice don’t come from producing orgasms in each other. The benefits come from nourishing … Read More

Experiencing ‘sacred’ sex

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My experience of sacred sex has been in the context of creating and maintaining a monogamous heterosexual couple. I am not in a good position to talk about other relationship arrangements. To find total satisfaction without orgasm, you just need to be accepting and patient. The core idea is to be joined to your beloved by touch and intention. Bodily … Read More

Living Sacred Sexuality

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Sacred sex to me means that making love is more than just a mind and body experience. It also includes an element that makes us feel part of something larger, something sacred. In this blog I will sketch out some of my experiences using karezza, a form of sacred sexuality, to guide how I have built my intimate relationship with … Read More

Menopause, Intimacy & Tantra – Janet McGeever (podcast)

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Is menopause interfering with your love life? You may want to try gentle tantra to renew your intimacy and nourish each other going forward. In this “Better Relationships” podcast, host Todd Zemek speaks with Janet McGeever. They discuss whether a non-performance-oriented approach to sex can help couples strengthen their sexual connection during and after menopause. Listen to podcast (53 min.) … Read More

Can Synergy help you keep your resolutions?

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Wondering how you’re going to keep your New Year’s resolutions? Researchers widely acknowledge self-control as a key predictor of productive, happy, and healthy lives. Now, new research suggests why Synergy lovemaking might be a great way to improve your chances of keeping your resolutions. Is our capacity for self-control fixed? Scientists long assumed that self-control arose (or not) early in … Read More

The Karezza Method: 5 Reasons To Try This Spiritual Sexual Practice

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by Kesiena Boom, MS When it comes to sex, we usually talk about orgasms as not only the indicator of successful sex—but as sex’s ultimate goal. Enter the karezza method. The karezza method’s origins. Karezza is a slow and sensual way of having sex that entirely removes climax from the sexual equation, leaving space for emotional connection and heightened affection. … Read More

The Rewards and Perils of Bonding Behaviours

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Bonding behaviours are powerful cues that evolved in mammals because they increase survival rates. They keep parents and offspring attached until the latter mature enough to go their merry way. In a small minority of mammals – bonding behaviours (grooming, guarding, sharing resources) also promote long-lasting pair bonds between mates. Humans are also pair bonders. Between human mates, typical bonding … Read More

Explosive New Book For Men | SEX GUIDE (Semen Retention 2.0)

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Here is a man discussing a new book for men by a Nick Brothermore. Nick experimented with karezza (Synergy-style) sex and finds it beneficial. The book addresses men specifically. The author touches on various challenges, including how to present the concept to a lover. Growing numbers of guys have jettisoned pornography and masturbation from their lives. Eventually, most of these … Read More