Viagra and the case for soft sex

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In the 1980s, drug company propaganda convinced the scientific world that nitric oxide was no longer a toxic pollutant, but rather a health-promoting substance to launch their new erection drug Viagra. ~Mark Sloan in The Ultimate Guide to Methylene Blue Visitors to SynergyExplorers.org generally know its central principle: Non-performance driven sex offers remarkable benefits. The gifts of loving, intimate exchange … Read More

Want to erase a recurring sexual fantasy?

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When you feel sexually aroused or sexually frustrated does your mind too often jump to a habitual fantasy or fetish to push you over the edge to climax? You are not alone. This kind of neural link is extremely common. Even if you would never want to act out a fantasy in real life it can be pesky, preoccupying your … Read More

Feeling stuck? Try careful cultivation of your sexual energy for a few weeks.

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Do you sense that you’re not realising your potential? Perhaps you have promising creative ideas and clear intentions but they hit exhausting snags. Maybe your inertia is so great that you’re not even billing clients. Or you’re putting off filing your taxes. Perhaps you desire a relationship but aren’t manifesting a social life. Maybe you’ve needed to renovate for years … Read More

Synergy without intercourse?

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Sounds like a contradiction in terms. Yet, what if you or your partner prefers to skip penetration in the moment for whatever reason? How do you tap the delicious benefits of intimate connection? If you’re a Synergy fan, you already know that the gifts of this practice don’t come from producing orgasms in each other. The benefits come from nourishing … Read More

Experiencing ‘sacred’ sex

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My experience of sacred sex has been in the context of creating and maintaining a monogamous heterosexual couple. I am not in a good position to talk about other relationship arrangements. To find total satisfaction without orgasm, you just need to be accepting and patient. The core idea is to be joined to your beloved by touch and intention. Bodily … Read More

Living Sacred Sexuality

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Sacred sex to me means that making love is more than just a mind and body experience. It also includes an element that makes us feel part of something larger, something sacred. In this blog I will sketch out some of my experiences using karezza, a form of sacred sexuality, to guide how I have built my intimate relationship with … Read More

Menopause, Intimacy & Tantra – Janet McGeever (podcast)

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menopause intimacy tantra

Is menopause interfering with your love life? You may want to try gentle tantra to renew your intimacy and nourish each other going forward. In this “Better Relationships” podcast, host Todd Zemek speaks with Janet McGeever. They discuss whether a non-performance-oriented approach to sex can help couples strengthen their sexual connection during and after menopause. Listen to podcast (53 min.) … Read More