Inyaniso eyonwabisayo malunga nezivuseleli ezikhuphisanayo: Izilwanyana ezanyisayo ezibophene ngazibini zisesichengeni sokukhotyokiswa ziziyobisi kunezinye izilwanyana ezanyisayo – ngaphandle kokuba sele zizinzile kwisibini sebhondi. Nje ukuba kumiselwe, iqhina lesibini linokunciphisa umngcipheko wokuba likhoboka. Kwenza ukuba "uphezulu" okhuphisanayo owenziweyo ungabi nomtsalane kangako. Ngoko ke, kwimekobume yanamhlanje yokuhendwa-nzima, kuyavakala ukwenza nokugcina iqhina eliphilileyo lesibini.
Kwangaxeshanye, ii-footloose pair bonders ezingekabikho fancy-free zisesichengeni. Banokubhaqwa ngokulula kwizinto ezenziweyo. Ukuba oko kuyenzeka ekugqibeleni banokufumana ubudlelwane bokwenyani ngokuthelekisa oko kunomvuzo onganeno. Uphando olungezantsi lubonelela ngemizekelo yendlela yokudibanisa izibini, izipho zayo ezikhuselayo, kunye nobuthathaka bayo.
Ngaba i-erotica ye-intanethi, iithoyi zesondo, ii-apps zokuthandana kunye nezinye izivuseleli ezenziweyo zinamandla okuphazamisana namabhondi ezibini zabantu kwinqanaba le-neurobiological? Sele zininzi izifundo ezinxibelelanisa ukusetyenziswa kwezivuseleli kunye nolwaneliseko oluncitshisiweyo lwezesondo kunye nobudlelwane. Kwaye ngo-2022 uphando olunika umdla icebise inkcazo esisiseko ye-physiological yeziphumo ezibi zokusetyenziswa koonografi kwi-intanethi kwiibhondi zabantu ababini.
UGqr. Heike Melzer uxoxa ngomba wokukhuphisana kwezivuseleli kule nto Intetho yeTEDx. Cofa u "CC" ukuvula imibhalo engezantsi.