Palibe amene angatunge pachitsime ngati chidebecho chili ndi mabowo. ~ Ine Ching, Hexagram 48
Chifukwa chake, mukufuna kuyesa Synergy ndipo mulibe wokonda. Kapena mwina muli ndi kukayikira kwakukulu pazabwino za Synergy, koma ndinu wasayansi wachilengedwe, ndipo mumakonda kumveka kwaukadaulo wowonjezera, mgwirizano wowonjezereka komanso kumveka bwino. Mulimonse momwe mungayesere kuchita bwino.
Kodi muyenera kuyang'ana wokonda wotani? Zokopa? Chidwi? Zauzimu? Dziko lapansi? Docile? Macho? Wodziwa? Wosadziwa?
The sine qua ayi
Chiyeneretso chofunikira kwambiri cha wokonda Synergy ndi chosavuta: kufunitsitsa kopanda malire kuyesa kukhulupirika kwathunthu. Kaya okondedwa omwe angakhale nawo akukopeka ndi zabwino za Synergy, kodi ayesa kwa miyezi ingapo kusinthanitsa mphamvu zachikondi pomwe ali ndi mphamvu zawo zakugonana (palibe orgasm) ndi kukhulupirika kwathunthu? Chidziwitso: Kodi mutha kukhala limodzi usiku wambiri? Ngati ndi choncho, kuyesa kwa mwezi umodzi kungakhale kotalika kokwanira kukuwonetsani zomwe muyenera kudziwa kuti muwone zomwe mungasankhe bwino.
Osadandaula zomwe wina limati za momwe aliri ofunitsitsa. Osadandaula ngati mukuganiza kuti akutentha (kapena akuganiza ndiwe otentha), motero ndikofunikira kutenga chiopsezo ndikuyembekeza zabwino. Weruzani mosamala. Kodi akungokopana basi? Dabbling? Mukulonjeza chilichonse kuti muchotse zovala zanu? Mwatsimikiza mtima kukhazikitsa chizolowezi chokonda kugonana kotentha? Kalanga, kumwa kuchokera pachitsime chamatope sikungakufikitseni pafupi ndi Synergy.
Yang'anani ndi malingaliro anu okhudza munthu uyu. Kodi kuyesa kwa chikhulupiriro ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa iwo kuposa miyezi ingapo ya orgasm? Pakhoza kukhala zambiri zomwe zili pachiwopsezo kuposa momwe nonse mukuganizira. Khalani owona mtima nokha.
Kodi iwo (ndi inu) muli ndi umphumphu kupanga kudzipereka koteroko? Kodi iwo ndi owolowa manja ndi nthawi yawo ndi chidwi chawo, kapena odzikonda? Ngati munawabwereketsa ndalama mungayembekezere kudzabweza? Kodi ndi olemekezeka? Wolimba mtima kuyesa china chatsopano? Kodi amakuyang'anani m'maso mukamalankhula nawo? Kodi ali ndi kudzichepetsa ndi maganizo omasuka?
Popanda kudzipereka koona, kogawana, palibe chofunikira chomwe chingachitike.
Amuna: sankhani bwenzi lodziwa zambiri, lodzidalira
Makamaka ngati mukukayikira lingaliro la Synergy, sankhani mkazi wamphamvu yemwe mungayese naye. Mudzafunika mphamvu ndi kutsimikiza mtima kwake kuti muyese kusintha kuchokera ku kugonana kwachizolowezi. Ngati, m'malo mwake, musankha bwenzi lomvera, ndiye kuti akhoza kukutsatirani pathanthwe pa chiyeso choyamba.
Zachidziwikire, mphamvu zimabwereranso pokhapokha ngati mkaziyo adadzipereka kwathunthu ku Synergy panthawi yoyesera. Chifukwa chake onetsetsani kuti amvetsetsa zomwe akudzipereka, kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji, ndipo ali m'bwalo.
Sankhani munthu amene mungamulemekeze ngati mmene mungachitire ndi mlongo wamkulu. Ndipotu, musazengereze kusankha mkazi wamkulu pang'ono kuposa inuyo.
Ikani pambali mndandanda wa anzanu omwe mukufuna. Ngakhale simukufuna ana, mndandandawu umakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi kutsimikiza kwa biology kukulitsa chibadwa chanu pamtengo uliwonse kwa inu nokha. Mosiyana ndi izi, cholinga cha Synergy ndikutsegula mwayi wanu wolumikizana ngati akulu.
Akazi: Sankhani bwenzi amene amamvetsera ndi kulemekeza zomwe mwapereka
Sankhani mnzanu amene sali wokonzeka kuyesa ndi mtima wonse kwa nthawi yonse ya kuyesa komwe mwagwirizana, koma yemwe - ngakhale atakhala okayikira - samanyoza malingaliro anu mopanda tanthauzo.
Ngati wina ali wofunitsitsa kudzipereka ku kuyesa kwa Synergy, musadandaule ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi makhalidwe omwe mumasirira. Chowonadi ndi chakuti palibe mwa inu amene amamuwonabe mnzake. Nonsenu mumafanana ndi zomera zofota pamlingo wina.
Ngati mumasinthasintha panthawi yoyesera, mumatha kuonana mosiyana pakapita milungu ingapo. Kudyetsana kumabweretsa zabwino mwa ife: kukulitsa luso, kumveka bwino, chisangalalo, chiyembekezo, chifundo, chisangalalo, mphamvu, kudzikonda, ndi zina zotero.
Yang'anani kwambiri pa khalidwe ndi kukhulupirika kwa mnzanuyo osati kugonana kukopa. Kumbukirani, biology yanu imakupatsirani mphoto, udindo komanso "kutentha". Khalani okonzeka kusiya zikhumbozo, ndi mndandanda uliwonse wa omwe akuyenera kukhala nawo, panthawi yomwe mukuyesa limodzi.
Kuyandikira mgwirizano pang'onopang'ono
Mukuda nkhawa ndi kukhumudwa kosaneneka pakugonana panthawi yanu ya Synergy? Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti kusinthana kwamphamvu kwachikondi + kunali ndi mphamvu zakugonana kwenikweni kumasuka kukhumudwa pakugonana. Pamodzi, amapangitsa kuyesa kosalekeza popanda kupsinjika.
Nthawi zonse ndi bwino kugona pafupi ndi mzake nthawi iliyonse panthawi yomwe mukuyesa, koma ngati sizingatheke, ingosinthani mphamvu pamodzi pamene mungathe. Gawanani chakudya ndi kuyendanso ngati n'kotheka.
Ndibwino kuti muyambe kusinthanitsa mphamvu zanu kuvala zovala zowala (koma osati zokopa). Ganizirani zinthu monga kusisita mapazi, kusisita mutu, kugwirana manja mukamapumula kapena kusinkhasinkha limodzi, kupukuta, ndi zina zotero. Pamene mukukambirana za chikondi, zindikirani kupuma kwa mnzanuyo. Kodi mumamva bwanji pamene khungu lanu limagwira nawo? Pewani kulolera.
Lolani kuti nthawi ipite pamene mukukhalabe ndi zinthu zofatsa izi. Nonse mukamaona kuti mphamvu zanu zogonana ndizokhazikika, yesani kuchotsa zovala zanu zapamwamba kuti muzitha kukhudzana kwambiri ndi khungu. Musayesetse kudzutsa chilakolako chogonana. (Kupsompsonana kwanjala ndikolimbikitsa kwambiri.) Yang'anani kwambiri pa spooning, kukhudza mwachikondi ndi kusisita mofatsa pakhungu lopanda kanthu.
Mukuwona chiyani kunja kwa chipinda chogona? Kodi mphamvu zanu zili bwanji? Kodi mumatha kuchita zinthu? Mlingo wanu wa chiyembekezo? Kugona kwanu? Kusewera kwanu? Khalani ndi digiri yatsopanoyi yaubwenzi mpaka mutamvanso kuti mphamvu zanu zonse zakhazikika.
Ngati kukhumudwa kwanu pakugonana kumakhala kovuta pakati pa kukumana mukuyenda mwachangu. Bwezerani. Zikakhazikika, yesani maliseche pamene mukuchita zinthu zachikondi zosayendetsedwa.
Kugonana kumaliseche
Mukatha kukhala ndi chikondi chodekha pomwe mulibe zovala, mutha kuphatikiza kukhudza kumaliseche popanda kugonana. Onani zomwe mwazindikira. Kodi mumamva mphamvu ikuyenda pakati panu? Yesani izi kangapo mpaka "magetsi" anu onse akhazikika.
Ndiye, ngati nonse mukufuna kugwirizana maliseche, mukhoza zambiri bwinobwino kuwonjezera kugonana. Kumbukirani kuti kusinthanitsa mphamvu zomwe zimadyetsa nonse sizidalira maliseche. Ndipo ndithudi osagwiritsa ntchito kusuntha kuti muwonjezere kudzutsidwa. Kenako, choyamba kugwirizana popanda kuyenda. Yesani izi kangapo musanawonjezere kusuntha (komwe kuli kosankha).
Ngati kusowa kwa kukondoweza kumasokoneza maliseche anu, mungafune kuyesa zolowera ndi limodzi la maudindo awa. Apanso, ngati kukhumudwa kwanu pakugonana kumakhala kovuta pakati pa kukumana mukuyenda mwachangu kwambiri. Bwezerani ndikudikirira mpaka mphamvu itakhazikika.
Panthawi yovuta kwambiri yokhudzana ndi maliseche, samalani kuti musagwere m'chizoloŵezi cha biology chokakamiza kudzutsa chilakolako. Dinani mnzanuyo kuti asiye kusuntha ngati izi zichitika. Pumulani pamodzi mpaka mutha kupatukana popanda kukhumudwa. Nthawi zonse malizitsani kukumana kwanu motere.
Kodi mumadzidalira kwambiri? Ochepa okhumudwa? Wotha kuwonetsa luso lanu? Kodi mumathandizana ndi ena mosavuta? Kodi mukuwona nthabwala ndi zopanda pake za zinthu kuposa kale, ndi chifundo chachikulu?
Kumenya gwero losatha la chakudya
Nthawi yanu yoyeserera ikatha, yesani zotsatira zanu. Mukuganiza bwanji za kuyesa kwanu? Ubwino uliwonse? Zovuta?
Kodi mukumva kukwanira? Zonse? Zokhutira modabwitsa? Ngati sichoncho, Synergy si yanu pakadali pano.
Moyenera, Synergy imatilola kuti tipeze chakudya chokhazikika, chosatha. Zimasintha malingaliro. Ikhoza kutithandiza kumvetsa zinthu zambiri, ngakhale kutilola kuona mmene zinthu zilili pa moyo wa anthu ndiponso zimene angasankhe mwanjira ina.
Imvani kuitana kwanga ndipo bwerani kwa ine chifukwa takhala osiyana m'maloto.
