Alice Bunker Stockham anali dokotala, adalera Quaker. Mu Karezza: Makhalidwe a Ukwati amakhudza zonse zothandiza komanso zauzimu za machitidwe a karezza. Musaphonye makalata ochokera kwa amene akuyeserera, pafupi ndi kuseri kwa bukhuli.
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Ndi Karezza, kukhuta sikudziwika konse, ndipo okwatirana sakhala ochepa kuposa okonda; tsiku lililonse limavumbulutsa zokondweretsa zatsopano….Zonyodola zatsiku ndi tsiku za anthu okwatirana zatha, mikangano yosadziwika bwino ilibe chiyambi ndipo makhothi osudzulana amabera zolemba zawo. …
Mphamvu zimenezi zimaperekedwa kudzera mu mchitidwe wa kuphatikana pamene kuli mphukira ya zisonyezero za chikondi, ndipo panthaŵi imodzimodziyo kwathunthu pansi pa ulamuliro wa chifuniro. [Mosiyana ndi izi], njira yanthawi zonse yokhalira limodzi mopupuluma…ndi yowononga mwakuthupi komanso mwauzimu, ndipo nthawi zambiri imayambitsa kusamvana ndi kulekana.
Karezza kotero consummates ukwati kuti mwa mphamvu ya chifuniro, ndi maganizo achikondi, vuto silinafike, koma ulamuliro wathunthu ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi anakhalabe mu ubale wonse, ndi chisamaliro kusamala kulenga mphamvu….Wolemba wina anachitcha kuti Male Continence, koma si mwamuna kuposa mkazi. …
Mu nthawi yayitali ya kulamulira kwangwiro, umunthu wonse wa aliyense umaphatikizidwa mu mzake, ndipo kukwezedwa kopambana kumakhala nako. Izi zikhoza kutsatiridwa ndi kuyenda kwachete, pansi pa kugonjera kwa chifuniro, kotero kuti chisangalalo cha kukhudzika pa chilichonse chisapitirire kusinthanitsa kokondweretsa. Pokhapokha ngati kubereka kumafuna, lolani kuti kufalikira kwa orgasm komaliza kupewedwe. Ndi nthawi yochuluka komanso kuyanjana kogwirizana kusinthasintha kumakhala kokhutiritsa komanso kokwanira popanda kutulutsa kapena zovuta. M'kupita kwa ola kupsinjika kwa thupi kumachepa, kukwezedwa kwauzimu kumawonjezeka, ndipo osati masomphenya achilendo a moyo wopambana amawoneka ndikuzindikira mphamvu zatsopano zomwe zimachitikira. …
Amuna omwe ali ndi chisoni chifukwa akazi awo amanjenjemera, ofooka komanso okwiya, ali ndi mphamvu zawo, kudzera mwa Karezza, kuti abwezeretse mawonekedwe owoneka bwino a thanzi kumaso a okondedwa awo, mphamvu ndi kusinthasintha kwa mapazi awo ndi machitidwe ogwirizana. ku ziwalo zonse za thupi lawo. Mwa kusonyeza kukoma mtima ndi chikondi, mwamuna akhoza kukulitsa kulabadira kwa mkazi wake kupyolera mu chikhalidwe chake chachikondi, chimene chimasonkhezera ulusi uliwonse kuchitapo kanthu ndi kutulutsa mphamvu ku mitsempha iliyonse. …
Palibe malire ku mphamvu ya mgwirizano weniweni wa moyo. Kumakulitsa mwachindunji mphatso ya machiritso….Pamene mphamvu yakulenga ya munthu imamveka, ndipo chidziwitsochi chikugwiritsidwa ntchito, amuna ndi akazi adzakula mu ukoma, mu chikondi, mu mphamvu, ndipo mokondwera ndi mwachibadwa adzapereka mphamvuzi ku zofuna za dziko. ndi chitukuko…
Karezza: Ethics of Marriage wolemba Alice Bunker Stockham (1903)