Ndanga ndichiongorora zvinyorwa zvetantric uye zvechiHindu kwemakumi emakore. Mukuona kwangu, magwaro anokosha uye pfungwa huru dzefilosofi muDharmic philosophy dzinoratidza kukosha kwekusaita zvepabonde sekuita kwemweya.
Naizvozvo, zvinogara zvichindishungurudza apo nyanzvi dzekuMadokero dzinoomerera pakuregeredza zvinorehwa nemagwaro akadai kuti azviroverere, semapegi akaenzana mumakomba akatenderedzwa, mufungidziro yagara ichiitika. Zvichida kuomarara kwefungidziro idzi ndekwekuti “kushandisa bonde nokuda kwezvinangwa zvakakwirira” nguva dzose kunofanira kureva bonde rokubereka!
Ndinofunga kuti fungidziro iyi haina kururama. Icho chibereko cherusaruro rwetsika kana kuti zvimwe evolutionary myopia.
Yakagara ichizivikanwa mutsika dzakasiyana-siyana, yekare uye yemazuva ano, kuti kune nzira yekudzorerazve simba repabonde kune zvinangwa zvemweya, zvakadai sekuwana nzvimbo dzakakwirira dzekuziva uye kuziva huMwari hweSelf. Asi varapi vanofanira kudzidza kuzvidzora pabonde kuti vatevere nzira iyi, kunyanya kana vapinda pabonde.
Bhagavad Gita
Chimbofunga zvinotevera kubva Chitsauko 7 ye Bhagavad Gita ("Rwiyo rwaMwari”) rugwaro:
Bhagavad Gita 7.9
Ndini kunhuhwira kwakachena kwenyika, uye kupenya mumoto. Ndini simba roupenyu muzvinhu zvose, nokupfidza kwavasina maturo.Bhagavad Gita 7.10
O Arjun, ziva kuti ini ndiri mbeu yekusingaperi yezvisikwa zvese. Ndini uchenjeri hwevakangwara, uye kubwinya kwevanokudzwa.Bhagavad Gita 7.11
Iwe wakanakisisa weBharatas, muvanhu vakasimba, ini ndiri simba ravo risina chido uye chido. Ndiri kuita zvepabonde zvisingapesani nehunhu kana mirairo yemagwaro.
Kwandiri, zviri pachena kuti Bhagavad Gita hairambidzi kuita zvepabonde. Inongoraira kuti bonde harifanire "kupikisa kunaka" kana "zvinorairwa nemagwaro". Mizhinji yemirairo yemagwaro inoenderana inoratidzika kunge inonongedza kure nekugutsikana kwechido.
Maiwe, nyanzvi dzisingazive (kana kusava nehanya ne) tsika yekusangana pabonde pasina magumo, vanofungidzira kuti vadikani vanofanira kuita bonde kuti vabereke chete kana vangave vakanaka. Idzi nyanzvi dzinoita sedzisina hanya neimwe nzira yekutonga simba repabonde rinodzidziswa kuvadzidzi vepamusoro: kusangana nekutadza pabonde, ndiko kuti, kusangana pasina orgasm.
Vamwe vadzidzi vanoita sevari kuda kuenzanisa zvinoreva "kunakidzwa pabonde" ne "orgasmic kusunungurwa". Pamwe ivo havazive kuti kunakidzwa kwepabonde kunogona kunakidzwa pasina chikonzero chekusangana neyakajairwa yekupedzisira chinangwa.
Iyi haisi fungidziro yekumhanya padivi pangu. Muchikamu chimwe chete che Bhagavad Gita, pamberi pemavhesi ari pamusoro, Krishna anosimbisa izvozvo pfungwa idzi hadzina kumbofarirwa. “Pakati pezviuru zvevanhu, hapana kana mumwe chete anovavarira kukwana; uye pakati peavo vakawana kukwana, hapana anondiziva muchokwadi.” Bhagavad Gita 7.3
Asi papasi redu rakazara vanhu pane chimwe chinhu chakakurumbira, kana kuti chechitendero, kupfuura kubereka? Uye chokwadi hapana chakajairika kupfuura orgasm. Zviripachena kuti rugwaro rwacho rwuri kureva nzira yepabonde yekukwana iyo yakasiyana zvikuru nesarudzo yemunhu.
Munondo wemunondo
Mukuona kwangu, the Bhagavad Gita iri kutaura nezvenzira yekudzora chishuvo chepabonde yakafanana netsika yekare ye“kupinza kwebakatwa,” the asidhārāvrata. Sword's edge varapi vakazvipinza mukuedzwa kwepabonde vasina kupedzisa kuita zvepabonde.
“Munondo” wakashanda sedimikira rine simba rokuzviranga kunodiwa kuti uchengete tsika iyi. Yakayeuchidza vatsvaki vemweya nezvekugona kwezvose kuparadzwa uye shanduko munzvimbo yepabonde.
Nhamburiko yokungwarira inodikanwa kuti tipukunyuke usungwa hwendangariro dzedu nezvishuvo zvezvishuvo zvedu. Mudzidzi akatsunga anosunungura pfungwa dzake kubva muuranda hwechido panguva yebonde, achikudza simba rakachengetedzwa reShakti (chishuwo) chakasanganiswa nerudo. Izvi zvinounza zvikomborero zvakakura zvemuviri, zvepfungwa, uye zvemweya.
Madeleine Biardeau anoti: “Rusununguko runowanwa nokushandisa chishuvo (Kama)—mupfungwa iri yose yeshoko iri uye mutsika dzaro dzose—kubasa rorusununguko.” (Hinduism, anthropology yebudiriro, Flammarion, 1995.) Kusunga chido zvinoreva kwete kuchipa mahara, tisingabvumiri hurongwa hwedu hwebhayoloji kutitonge.
Tsananguro dze asidhārāvrata muzvimiro zvaro zvakasiyana-siyana zvinotangira kusvika muzana remakore rechinomwe nerechisere. Mukuwedzera, ndima pamusoro pevanasaimba vasina kuroora mu Vaikhānasagrḥyasūtra chinyorwa chinoratidza kuti asidhārāvrata inogona kuvambira muzana remakore rechina. The Bhagavad Gita pachayo inotangira kuhafu yechipiri yemireniyamu yekutanga BCE.
Muchidimbu, pfungwa iyi yekubatanidza chido, pane kubvumira mafungiro edu kutonga, yave iripo kwenguva refu. Pamwe hazvina kunyanya kutarisira kuti pfungwa idzi rimwe zuva dzichaiswa pachena se“zvinobvira” pachinzvimbo chekukandwa parutivi neakawanda eAcademia.
