UGqirha uJ. William Lloyd’s Indlela ye-Karezza by is a gem: mfutshane, eliciko, elisebenzisekayo, nelinomtsalane ngokumangalisayo (yapapashwa ngowe-1931). Uthethelela ngobuchule i-karezza (ukwahluka kwe Ukwenza uthando kwi-synergy). Nantsi into epheleleyo, kodwa ehlanganisiweyo (kwaye iyakhangelwa) PDF yencwadi, kwaye nantsi a scan yencwadi yokuqala. Abafundi nabo banako thenga i-Ebook.
Ukondla omnye
ULloyd ucebisa umthandi weKarezza ukuba abe "ibhetri" yamagnetic.
Njengoko ufumana umkhwa wokubanika umbane wakho wesondo ngaphandle kokusikelela iqabane lakho ngezokwabelana ngesondo, izandla, imilebe, ulusu, amehlo kunye nelizwi, uya kufumana amandla okuzanelisa wena kunye naye ngaphandle komzimba. Kungekudala awuyi kukucinga nokuzeyisa, kuba awuyi kuba nomnqweno we-orgasm, kwaye awungekhe.
Uphawula amandla kaKarezza (ukwabelana ngesondo okulawulwayo) ukondla izithandwa. Unika ingxelo ngombono:
wokwaneliseka okumnandi, ukuzala kokuqonda, uxolo, ukuqaqamba ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nobukhazikhazi bengqondo obuhlala kangangeentsuku, ngokungathi kukho isivuseleli se-ethereal, okanye kunoko isondlo, samkelwe.
…KwiKarezza eyimpumelelo amalungu okwabelana ngesondo ayazola, aneliseke, angabi nazizibuthe, ngokugqibeleleyo njengakwi-orgasm, ngelixa ukuphumla komzimba weqabane ngalinye kubengezela ngamandla amangalisayo kunye novuyo olusengqondweni…ethanda ukucaphukisa wonke umntu ngothando lothando; kwaye uhlala uziva emva kokuziva ucocekile kwaye usempilweni. Sonwabe kakhulu kwaye sonwabile njengasemva kwesidlo esipheleleyo.
Ukugxila ekondleni isithandwa sakho akukususeli ekubambeni ulambileyo, kodwa oku kugxila ekuzinikezeleni kukwabonakala ngathi kudala ukuveliswa kokunye. yioxytocin, ngoxa ngokucacileyo eshenxisa iimvakalelo ezinganelisekiyo kwizinto ezininzi dopamine. Uphando lubonise ukuba i-oxytocin kwimilinganiselo efanelekileyo ihambelana neenzuzo kwimpilo yomntu, uxolo lwengqondo, kunye nokukwazi ukuxhamla ngokunzulu.
I-Arousal hangover
Kuyo yonke le ncwadi, uLloyd uchaza i-hangover enokuvelisa i-orgasm. Nantsi eminye yemigqaliselo yakhe:
Yiwayini yesini enika uthando ukuthakatha kunye namaphupha angcwele. Oku kungqinwa ngokulula ngokunika abathandi ilayisensi engasikelwanga mda ukuba baveze uthutho lwabo. Kungekudala beyichithe iwayini yesondo ngokusangana ngokungakhathali - ihlala i-orgasm enye iya kwenza indoda ingabi namagnethi okwexeshana-nangona bethandana ngokufanayo, njengoko beya kuthi elowo nalowo athethe ngamandla - umtsalane ongenakuthintelwa kunye nokukhanya kunye nemincili yemagnethi iphelile. , kwaye kukho ukuhla okungaqhelekanga kwingqondo epholileyo, egxekayo okanye ukungakhathali, okanye mhlawumbi ukungathandi….
Ukuwolana rhoqo kwe-orgasmal, njengoko uninzi lwezithandani ezitshatileyo zisenza, kukugcina iwayini isezantsi kwiibhekile zesondo ngokuchitheka rhoqo, ukuze kubulawe lonke uthando kunye nolonwabo kwaye ekugqibeleni ilambe kwaye ilucime uthando.
…Ngamava aqhelekileyo ukuba kukho imvakalelo yolahleko, ubuthathaka, kunye nenkohliso ephelisiwe, kulandela ngokukhawuleza imvakalelo yombulelo yokuqala yokukhululeka. Kubekho ulonwabo lokwexeshana, kodwa olufutshane kakhulu kunye nesathuthwane ukuba lukwazi ukwenza impembelelo enkulu engqondweni, kwaye ngoku alusekho, lushiya kungekho nkumbulo. Izibane ziye zacima, umculo uyekile.
Obu buthathaka budla ngokuba bukhali kangangokuba bubangele ukuqaqamba, isiyezi, isiyezi [isiyezi], idyspepsia [ukungagayeki], ukucekisa, ukucaphuka, ukuba neentloni, ukungathandi, okanye ezinye iimpawu ezibangelwa kukugula okanye ukungabi naluthando. Oku ngokukodwa kwicala lendoda, kodwa mhlawumbi ukusa kumlinganiselo othile nakwicala lomfazi. Nokuba akukho ngaphezulu, kukho ukuphelelwa lithemba, ukungakhathali ngequbuliso, umnqweno wokulala. Ingubo emanzi iwile, okwexeshana ubuncinci, kwilangatye lothando. Ezothando ziyehla kwaye zirhubuluza njengentaka enamaphiko.
I-neuroscience yanamhlanje Icebisa ukuba ezi mpawu zinokuba sisiphumo sotshintsho olunjalo lomzimba njengokuhla okukhawulezileyo kumanqanaba e-dopamine (umnqweno we-neurochemical) emva kwe-orgasm, ukunyuka kweprolactin (i-sexual satiation neurochemical), kunye nokuncipha kwe-testosterone receptors kwiiseli zemithambo-luvo ebuchotsheni. inkqubo ye-limbic.
U-Lloyd akaphelelanga nje ekukrokreleni indima ebalulekileyo yamadlala e-endocrine kwisini kunye nee-hangover ezivuselela inkanuko yesini, waphinda wachukumisa i-biology ye-evolution yesini.
Indalo yayithetha [i-orgasm] kuphela ekusasazeni nasekupheleleni kwayo modus operandi kubalwe ukujonga uthando, ukoyisa uthando, kwaye lujike uthando lube kukungakhathali okanye ukucaphukela. Ngokwahlukileyo, uKarezza ukhuthaza ukuba nomfazi omnye ngaphakathi. Kwenza umtshato ube mnandi ngakumbi kunokuthandana, uthando ngakumbi kunokuthandana, kwaye ugcine iholide yasemva komtshato engapheliyo, eyanelisayo…..
Ayikho enye into eyaziwayo eyenza ikhosi yothando lokwenyani iqhube kakuhle njengeKarezza.
Uvuthondaba kunye nokunyanzeliswa
ULloyd wayelwazi unxibelelwano phakathi kwesondo se-orgasmic kunye nokuziphatha okukhobokisayo. Uphawula ukuba emva kwe-orgasm inokuvelisa ukulangazelela izinto ezikhuthazayo. Wongeza ukuba, ukuzifica kwi-orgasm rhoqo njengokuzonwabisa nje kunye nokuziyolisa kudala inkohlakalo.
Iwayini yesondo ngamanye amaxesha inokuya entloko kwaye ikhokelele ekuzixakekiseni ngesondo enomda we-satyriasis okanye i-nymphomania, njengokuba nayiphi na enye inkanuko inokuba kukunxila ngokweemvakalelo.
Uphawula ukuba uthando kunye nolonwabo lwesini luyolisayo,
kodwa ukuba kuqhubeka ixesha elide isiphumo esingenakuthintelwa kukuba imithambo-luvo ingabi namandla okuxabisa okanye ukuphendula….kwaye ekugqibeleni inokuphela ngokuphelisa uthando kunye nesondo ngokwazo.
Apha uyichaza ngokuchanekileyo indlela i-dopamine eziphatha ngayo kuyo nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha ekhobokisayo. Ukunyuka okuqatha kumanqanaba e-dopamine kulandelwa kukuhla, ukuseta umjikelo onganelisiyo, kwaye ekugqibeleni unokubakho umlutha. Ubonisa ukuba
Abo baqhelisela iKarezza abanaxanduva lokugqithisela, kuba bayigcinile inkcitho ye-orgasm. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, abo bangayisebenzisiyo iKarezza banoxanduva olukhulu lokugqithisela, kwaye oku kudla ngokuvela rhoqo kunye ne-orgasms eqatha….
Ukuqwalaselwa kwakhe kungqinwa Imibhalo yesini yaseTshayina. Ababhali babo bamandulo bafundisa ukuba i-orgasm, nangona inciphisa ukugcinwa kwenyama, inefuthe elichasene nomnqweno wesini. "Emva kokuphazamiseka kwangoko, kukho ukuphindaphindeka kwengqondo ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuqiniswa komdla onomdla [kunye namaphupha amanzi]". Isisombululo? “Xa i ingoma uzele umntu akanazo ingcinga zinkanuko”. I-Karezza luqheliselo olulondolozayo ingoma, okanye amandla obomi.
ULloyd ude afikelele kwithiyori yokuba isenzo esigqithisileyo samadlala e-endocrine sinokukhokelela ekuhlaselweni ngokwesondo emva kodlwengulo kunye nomona we-pathological.
Iyaphilisa kwaye ihombise
Njengogqirha, uLloyd wabonakala enomdla ngokukhethekileyo ziingenelo zempilo awayezibona kubathandi beKarezza. Le ndlela yokwenza uthando inika ukukhanya kunye namandla kumalungu esini, kunye nenkuthazo efana newayini kumoya wamaqabane…ngaphandle kokuvelisa ukusabela [i-hangover]. Yenye yezona arhente zibalaseleyo zoncedo kunye nokunyanga ubuthathaka obuqhelekileyo besini kunye nezigulo, kuquka urethritis [usulelo lomjelo womchamo] kunye neprostatitis [ukwandiswa kwedlala lengqula].
Ukongezelela, wayesazi ukuba kusebenza njengomlingo kwintlungu ebuhlungu yokuba sexesheni. ULloyd ukwakhankanya ukuba iKarezza isebenza njengesithomalalisi semithambo-luvo, de inyange nentloko ebuhlungu. Ubungqina be-anecdotal bubonisa ukuba kunokuphucula ukulala kwaye kunciphise ukudakumba kunye nokuba likhoboka.
ULloyd ucebisa ukwalathisa imisinga yamandla kulo naliphi na ilungu eligulayo leqabane likabani ngengcamango yokuphilisa. NgokukaLloyd, iKarezza yonyusa impilo yomzimba kunye namandla engqondo, igcina ulutsha, kwaye yenye yezona zinto zibalaseleyo zokuzivocavoca kwezempilo.
uthando
U-Lloyd ngokwakhe ubonakala engumthandi weKarezza ngokwakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyaziqonda izipho zothando. I-Karezza yeyona nto ihombisa kakhulu kuba iyanda kwaye yenza ukunyamezela intliziyo ibe luthando.
Ubuso babo bawuqheliselayo buthanda ukuba buhle ngokugqithisileyo…ukukhanya okuzolileyo, okumnandi emehlweni, ukucekeka nokucokisa umgca, ukubengezela nokudlala indima ethile, isandi esimnandi selizwi, esingcangcazelisa umazibuthe ongenakuchazwa… yenza nobona buntu bucacileyo bube nomtsalane.
Ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokugcina ugxininiso lwentliziyo ngexesha le ndlela yokwenza uthando. Karezza, uLloyd uyasiqinisekisa,
ilula kwaye iyimpumelelo ngokulingana nentabalala yothando omnye komnye – [kwaye] nzima kwaye inzima ngokomlinganiselo njengoko inkanuko yesini ilawula uthando.
ULloyd ukwajongana nemiba yokomoya yalo mkhuba. Ukwabelana ngesondo uthi, kusondele kakhulu kumphefumlo.
[Yanelisa kuphela] xa imanyanisa imiphefumlo, ingekuko nje ukuhlanganisa imizimba ngenjongo yolonwabo.
Ngokwenene, ucebisa ukuba ukuba uya kwandisa ulawulo lwakho lwezesondo,
gcina ukomoya phezulu, ukongamela - ukuthanda yinto yokuqala, kunye ne-one-ment ... yemiphefumlo yenu, isiphelo sakho sokwenyani.
Ngaba ubonisa ukuba obu bunye buxabisekileyo buphinda buvelise i-androgyne yobuthixo? Ubudlelwane obugcweleyo bemagnethi yeKarezza yenzeka xa
Imiphefumlo emibini kunye nemizimba ibonakala njengento enye, idada kumjelo othile ongcwele eParadesi…. Le yeyona nto ifanelekileyo kunye nesiphelo seKarezza. Ekugqibeleni uya kungena kumanyano olunjalo kangangokuba ekwamkeleni kwakho ngokupheleleyo akunakukwazi ukuzichaza ngokwahlukileyo kwaye unokufunda iingcinga zomnye. Uyakuva ubunye bomzimba ngokungathi igazi lakhe libaleka emithanjeni yakho, inyama yakhe yeyakho. Kuba oku kukwamkeleka koMoya.
Ukusuka kwiphepha lesihloko likaLloyd:
Umthandi nguMculi weTouch
I-Karezza kwifomu yayo egqibeleleyo ngumtshato wendalo - ukuba ubambelele, unelisekile
Umanyano lomzimba nomphefumlo oluhlala lunqwenelwa luthando lokwenyani kwaye apho umtshato ofanelekileyo uqulathe - kunye
ngako konke ukuphindwa kwesenzo abathandanayo baphinda batshata, umanyano lwabo luyahlaziywa, lwenziwe nzulu, luqiniswa.
