Do you find it challenging to share what you know about the benefits of a sexual practice like Synergy? If so, perhaps this famous list of paradoxical commandments, sometimes known as “Anyway”, will fortify your resolve.
K.M Keith first published them in 1968. They arose from an insight he had during his days as a student, which he recounts here.
Essentially, he gained the insight that you don’t need public approval if you focus on the meaning and satisfaction you receive from making a positive contribution to the world. He also emphasises the importance of doing such things out of love for your fellow humans, even when they are being infuriating!
In short, the paradoxical commandments remind us of what we know in our hearts. When the moment comes that you know deep inside that it’s right to share the unfamiliar insight about the benefits of Synergy, don’t worry about public approval. It’s unlikely to arrive.
Yet you may improve the lives of those you love by speaking up. And you may find the process deeply fulfilling.
That said, wait for an opening, such as a comment that indicates frustration within a relationship, or discouragement about relationships in general. Often, such a comment is your cue to share…gently…that there is another way. Suggest that people might like to make their own experiment for a month before evaluating the concept. Also consider sharing this website. It has dozens of videos of first-hand accounts by those who have experimented with Synergy.
