Dead bedroom? Drifting apart? Need a recharge? This 36-year old coach breaks down the challenges to monogamy in order to encourage his listeners to experiment with karezza sex. He points out that too much casual sex causes lovers to get bored of new relationships faster and faster. Coolidge Effect anyone?

For him the game changer was figuring out that gentle, heart-centered, non-ejaculatory bonding sex makes it possible to sustain attraction. Why? Because both partners stay sexually charged. More sex, more connected sex and no climax are the keys.

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