Synergy Explorers will enjoy this short clip by Bruce Lipton, in which he discusses the power of the “honeymoon effect”. When in love, we tend to stay conscious instead of running on old subconscious patterns. The world looks brighter; we feel better; and life is worth living.
Of course conventional sex, with its drive toward climax, is one of humankind’s strongest subconscious patterns. Unfortunately, it can derail the feelings of optimism that love generates.
Make an experiment
The shift in perception that follows orgasm shows up differently for everyone one of us and from situation to situation. Sometimes it is a feeling of irritability with our partner or family members or work colleagues. Perhaps it is a sense of being hemmed in and needing space. Or a desire to explore sex with other partners because there may be someone better out there. Or maybe it shows up as general feelings of scarcity manifesting as not having enough in life, be it money, clothes, opportunity, status, energy, appreciation, or wellbeing, to mention a few.
What happens when lovers leave climax behind? They tend to stay more fully present during their lovemaking. In fact, because they sidestep the neurochemical crash that can shift their perception of each other and their lives for the worse, it’s easier for them not to fall into other old subconscious patterns. And to remain present, enthusiastic and contented more of the time both in and out of the bedroom.
In this state of mind, spontaneity, inspiration and the ability to perceive synchronicities arise more readily. Less bound by tired old subconscious programming, Synergy lovers also more easily find the courage to follow such inner guidance.
Keep the sparkle
Have you experienced a hint of these feelings of enhanced wellbeing before? Many people today have felt the benefits of solo meditation – the state of relaxed alertness, a creative state where we can more easily stay in the present moment. Have you noticed how that state can last anything from a few hours to a few days depending on how long we have been developing this practice and how well we can remain in that flow state?
Well, we have the potential to tap into a more sustainable version of that state through couple or sexual meditation without climax. This approach also enables a higher state of consciousness for both partners.
Practising Synergy with a willing partner is a bridge to a higher state of consciousness and spiritual clarity. With careful cultivation, that state of clarity and joy can last even longer than the traditional honeymoon effect. Keep the sparkle in your relationship, for the good of yourself, your lover and everyone around you.
